Fourth Sunday of Lent C
The children
in catechism class were being quizzed
on the
parable of the prodigal son.
So the
teacher asked,
“Who was
most sorry when the prodigal son returned home?”
One boy gave
it a lot of deep thought before he answered,
“The
fattened calf!”
A
few years ago in another North Country parish,
the
locals were making their way
through
these forty days of Lent just as we are—
including
preparations for several members of the community
who would be joining the Catholic Church at Easter.
who would be joining the Catholic Church at Easter.
Within
that group of converts to the faith
was
one whose previous way of life was rather widely known:
he
had been a doctor who for years provided abortions.
If
his past was no secret, neither were the concerns of some
who
would soon become his fellow parishioners.
As
Holy Week drew nearer,
the
doctor took part in all the various rites and rituals
which
generally occur for such candidates at Sunday Mass
during
this sacred season.
And
the grumbling continued:
“It’s
one thing if he’s turned from his evil ways
and
decided to become a Catholic.
But
do they really have to parade him around in front of everybody?
I
mean, we all know who he is and what he’s done.
Sure,
people can change…but it just doesn’t seem right.”
That
episode came back to me
as
I reflected on the parable of the prodigal son this week.
In
particular, the attitude of the older brother came to mind.
He’s
terribly resentful—
not
so much of his kid brother’s wastefulness and wandering,
but
of his father’s warm welcome.
The
boy’s come home fully deserving punishment,
but
what his father gives him instead is a great big party.
How
can that be fair?
Sure,
maybe he’s changed…but it just doesn’t seem right.
Our
heavenly Father’s mercy is not only kindly and generous,
but
often downright scandalous—
at
least, from a worldly perspective, anyway.
We
manipulate his benefits
and
exploit his blessings time and again,
yet
all we have to do is turn back to him—
to
even just begin to admit the error of our ways—
and
he refuses to count our transgressions against us.
Unlike
in the parable,
in
the Most Blessed Trinity it’s “like Father, like Son.”
Isn’t
this the very charge the scribes and Pharisees
also
level against Jesus?
The
same accusation which causes him
to
tell this parable in the first place?
“This
man welcomes sinners and eats with them!”
I
think of all this especially during this Year of Faith.
A
major focus of this special year is to reach out
to
those Catholics who—for one reason or another—
no
longer actively practice their faith.
But
what sort of welcome do we give them
if
and when they decide to return?
on
Christmas Eve or Easter morning.
Do
we “regulars” just get restless and resentful
that
someone’s sitting in our usual seat
or
there’s no room left out in the parking lot?
Or
can we rejoice to see the place packed
and
make these folks feel more at home?
Or
how about the young family
whose
children are a bit squirmy
or
a little extra noisy sometimes?
If
I consistently got scowled at when I came to Mass,
I
might consider coming only once and a while, too!
Saint
Paul makes our role abundantly clear:
God
has given us—all of us—a ministry of reconciliation.
We
are to be ambassadors for Christ!
What
appeal is God making though you?
Now,
I’m not saying it needs to be all confetti and party hats.
The
fattened calf—to be sure—will be quite relieved to know
there
are no plans to change the menu at the Lord’s Table!
But
a simple smile goes an awfully long way.
As
does a handshake. Or a quiet,
“Hello.”
Or
sliding down in the pew
to
make room for somebody who has just arrived.
Studies
have continually shown
that
most Catholics who leave to join another religious community
do
so not because of the Church’s doctrine or disinclines,
but
because they feel a lack of community and connection.
If
we have any hope of helping folks
to
renew and deepen their Catholic faith,
we
must first begin by making them feel
like
they really, truly belong.
On
this Laetare Sunday,
let
us resolve to celebrate and rejoice
together
with our Father in heaven
whenever
a brother or sister of ours,
who
was dead in sin, has come to life again—
whenever
one who was lost has been found.
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