Sunday, November 16, 2014

Only The Very Best

I'm back from retreat, and it was a silent one...so that might be why I have so much to say this Sunday!

  Thirty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time   A  

There are a whole lot of things that a pastor needs to know
that they never get around to teaching you in the seminary. 
You may recall that, early on in my time here,
I had to get a crash course in boilers
when the one at Notre Dame blew up. 
In my last assignment—in Old Forge—it was roofing. 
St. Bartholomew’s in Old Forge
is one of the newest churches in the diocese—
dedicated in 1991, if I remember right. 
But it fell to me to put the third roof on that rather young building. They just kept leaking. 
Part of the process was removing the church’s steeple—
and not temporarily, either, but for good. 
It was a tall, slender fiberglass unit,
ordered out of a church supply catalogue,
that looked alright from the ground…
…but when you got up to the base of it you could see
that it wasn’t really designed for Adirondack weather:
it was rapidly rotting away. 
About 10 days after the steeple was dismantled,
a family wanted to talk to me after Mass—
some of the many summer residents
who come-and-go in that resort town.
They wanted to talk about the steeple… 
…because they had donated it back when the church was built. 
They weren’t angry—thank God!—
but they were pretty disappointed. 
I can still hear them saying:
“But, Father…the great cathedrals of Europe…
they have steeples which stand for 500 years or more!” 
(Oh, how I wanted to add: 
“But they’re not made of fiberglass!”)
Unfortunately, the steeple they’d paid for
didn’t stand for 20 years, leave alone a few centuries. 
We seem to somehow have forgotten what we once knew:
how to build things to stand the test of time.

I had a similar conversation with some parishioners
a few weeks ago. 
I stopped by their home and found them
doing some exterior work to the house and yard,
getting ready for winter. 
He was putting new trim around the windows. 
“Those windows look pretty new,” I said. 
“They are,” he answered.  “They were just put in last year.  
But get up close and you can see they didn’t do a very good job. 
While it looks OK, it won’t last. 
It’s sad,” he continued. 
“Once upon a time, people took more pride in their work.
 I guess they cared more,
and they knew how to do this sort of thing well.”

These are just two examples of something, I fear,
which goes way beyond
how we construct our homes and houses of worship these days;
they’re signs of what I’ll call our “good enough culture.”
It’s funny, because we live in an age
when we want everyone to feel like a winner…
but, in the end, when everybody’s a winner…nobody wins.
We’ve seen a gradual, general lowering of standards.
In so many areas of life—manufacturing, education and sports,
politics, religion and relationships—
we appear increasingly less and less willing to strive for the best,
and more and more willing to settle for what’s merely “good enough.”

This Sunday, Jesus tells the parable
of the master, the servants, and the talents.
Just so you know: a “talent” in gospel times
didn’t refer to some personal skill or ability.
A talent was a unit of measure,
and a silver talent—the sort Jesus seems to be talking about—
wasn’t exactly pocket change:
it was 130 pounds of silver—
the equivalent or 9 or 10 years’ salary for an average skilled laborer.
Even the third servant, who’d been given “just” one talent,
had been entrusted with a veritable fortune!


Given that bit of background,
it’s fairly common when this gospel is read
to get a homily on parish stewardship—
on what contributions it takes from parishioners
in order to make a parish run well.
Don’t worry:
I’m not going to talk about giving money to the Church
(although, if you read our annual reports,
you’d understand why I might);
and I’m not going to talk about
donating your time and your talents, either
(although it is getting harder all the time
to find enough volunteers to do things around here).

Instead, I want you to consider
the stewardship of your own hearts.

We receive so much from God:
his love;
faith in Jesus Christ;
baptism, to wash away sin and make us members of the Church;
the Holy Eucharist, which is the bread of eternal life.
And that’s just the start of the list!
What return is God getting on his big investment in us?
When it comes to what you do for your faith,
what you do for your family—
in both cases, what you do for God—
are you settling for “good enough”?


Jesus makes it rather clear this Sunday:
when we appear before God,
“good enough” simply won’t do.
God doesn’t want “good,” 
and he doesn’t accept “better”;
God expects our best.
Now, that’s not to say he expects us to be perfect.
Doing your best is different for each one of us,
according to the particular talents you’ve been given.
And this isn’t a competition, either.
The only one we ought to aim to please is God,
who alone truly understands what we’re capable of.



We’re given an example of this principle in action in our first reading,
as we hear that moving hymn to a worthy wife.
It’s poetry that celebrates the beautiful life
of one who consistently gives her very best—
not out of obligation
(although she has one to her husband and children),
and not in hopes of gaining a reward, either
(although there will be one of those, too).
She does her very best in everything because of love—
and nothing else.

Not “good enough,” but her best.
Is that what we’re giving to the Lord?

We may react like that third servant in the parable,
who seems to find his master’s ways rather unfair:
He didn’t give me any clear instructions before leaving!
He didn’t say exactly what it was he wanted me to do with that talent!
He’s just a passive-aggressive tyrant!
Or is he?
Yes, God entrusts us with the treasures of his kingdom—
vast spiritual fortunes, in fact—
but he doesn’t then micromanage them;
God takes a great risk—he trusts us—
and in large part leaves their proper investment
up to you and me.
For one thing, God isn’t after cookie cutter Christians—
every one of them just like all the others.
We belong to a Church, not a cult,
and our diversity is a great blessing.
How boring the Church would be if we were all the same!
Instead, God is inviting our initiative and creativity.
And he respects our freedom.
Sin warps our sense of freedom,
and frequently turns it into what seems like a burden instead.
But God won’t unnecessarily restrict us.
The stewardship we exercise over our hearts
must be our own freely made decision.

St. Paul reminds us, as he reminded the Thessalonians,
that there will come a day of reckoning—
whether the end of our lives or the end of time—
we know not when.
Therefore, we cannot rest on our laurels,
lest we get caught unawares and left in the dark.
When we’re called upon—each one of us on our own—
to give a final accounting of our life
and the use we’ve made of God’s many graces and blessings,
to say, “I thought what I did would probably be good enough,”
won’t exactly be very convincing.

Now, you might be saying to yourself,
“Father, I think you’re quite mistaken
about this business of a ‘good enough’ culture.”
I very well might be.
So I challenge you: prove me wrong!

Not so much in building a church or a home,
but when it comes to everything that happens under their roofs,
God expects from us the very best.
And he has every right to, doesn’t he?
After all, the very best is always what God is giving to us.
  

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Retreat! Retreat!

I leave this morning to make my annual retreat (so no homily will be posted tomorrow).  I'll be staying at Mount St. Francis Hermitage, which is attached to the friary of the Franciscans of the Immaculate in Maine, NY.  Please pray for me, if you think of it.  I'll be returning to Malone next Friday afternoon.


Sunday, November 2, 2014

What it's all about

   Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed   


Readings: Isaiah 25:6-9 / Psalm 23 / 1 Corinthians 15:51-57 / John 6:37-40

I love the Peanuts holiday specials,
and make it a point to watch them again each year.
On Thursday night, we introduced Fr. Justin to,
It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown.
I think he enjoyed it.


Now, do you remember the scene in A Charlie Brown Christmas
where Linus gets up on the stage,
reads the gospel account of the Nativity, and then says,
“That’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown”?
Well, I really, really wish there was a scene like that one
in the Great Pumpkin, too!
Why?  Because, for weeks, I’ve been trying to find a way
to explain to Fr. Justin what Halloween is “all about.”

We’ve guided him through the process
of carving his first jack o’lantern (he did very, very well),
and given him advice on where to find parts for his costume
(his Duck Dynasty beard was quite convincing).
But it’s one thing to teach somebody the mechanics of the holiday,
quite another to help him understand what it all means.
Cute youngsters in disguise, begging for treats;
people threatening tricks—some harmless, some hurtful;
homes decorated with tombstones and skeletons
(or even things far more frightful)—
why in the world do we do all of this?

Having had to think about this a bit more than usual,
I’d say that Halloween, marked as it is by things both silly and scary,
is a way that we’ve found to laugh in the face of death.

Now, to be clear,
that’s not at all to make light of anyone’s grief.
Losing a loved one is certainly no laughing matter.

Yet while death must be dealt with honestly,
for the Christian, death is nothing to fear.

Could you hear St. Paul laughing during our second reading?
In the face of human mortality he says:
Ha!  Where, O death, is your victory?
Ha!  Where, O death, is your sting?
You might as well admit your defeat,
because you will not be the end of me!

Even as commercial and creepy as its gotten in recent years,
Halloween is still the build up
to two of the Church’s great observances:
to the feast of All Saints on November 1st,
and to the commemoration of All Souls on November 2nd.
First we celebrate the heroes of our faith
who inspire us and intercede for us—
those who’ve gone before us in death
and who can now assist us from heaven by their prayers.
But then we pause to call to mind the faithful departed—
all those others who’ve gone before us in death,
who are still on their way to heaven,
and who we have a duty to assist by our prayers.

As these twin observances make plain,
it is our faith that, at death, life is changed, not ended.
We believe not only in the immortality of the soul,
but in the resurrection of the body.
And while soul and body may indeed be separated for a time—
as with Jesus’ own three days in the grave—
we believe that we shall be raised up on the last day.
Christ’s death on the Cross and Resurrection from the dead
are the very heart of the Christian faith.
By Baptism and in the Eucharist,
we are caught up in Christ’s incredible victory.
The Lord of hosts had long promised
to wipe all tears away and destroy death forever.
It is for this that the Son of God was sent:
by dying and rising, to save us from our sins
and to open for us the way to eternal life.
If we don’t really believe this,
then none of the rest of the Catholic faith
makes any sense whatsoever.
But if we do really believe this,
then it changes absolutely everything.

So you see, Easter and Halloween have a connection far deeper
than just being occasions for eating much too much candy;
each in its own way gets to the core 
of who we are as followers of Jesus Christ.
One gives us the solemn reason, the other a comic reminder,
of why we Christians are able to laugh—
laugh in the face of death.
And that is what it’s all about.
  

Friday, October 31, 2014

Making Faces

From the pumpkins and the priests of St. André's Parish...
HAPPY HALLOWEEN!


Walking the Line





Yesterday afternoon I took a walk in the woods at The Gulf, a most definitely "unique" area near Cannon Corners in northernmost Clinton County.



After parking off a back road off a back road (that's not a typo), there's a 2.6 mile meander through woods and wetlands dotted with some rather unusual rock formations--almost like the earth heaves just below the surface from time to time.  In spots, the trail is over bare sandstone bedrock.


And then you get to The Gulf: a chasm formed when the last ice age melted off some 12,000 years ago.  It's 3/4 of a mile wide, 2 miles long, with a maximum depth of 1,000 feet.

And what makes The Gulf even more"unique"...is that it cuts straight across the U.S./Canada border.  (I did say this was northernmost Clinton County!)  The red DEC markers stop just as you get in sight of Border Monument #688, and you can easily see Monument #687 at the top of the wall on the other side of the chasm.  (You can see #687 in the upper right of the photo above, too.)


I didn't run into anybody else while hiking, but I still felt like someone certainly must be watching me standing there at the international border, so I walked back just a bit along the trail before stopping a moment to eat my lunch.

There's a waterfall which flows down the side of the The Gulf.  Since I found myself at the top of it, and the chasm was so steep and deep, it was hard to get much perspective on it--or take a good picture.  But then I noticed this:


And I couldn't resist.  Using that rope to climb down may not be the smartest thing I've ever done...but it was a fun little challenge, and it got me halfway down the chasm so I could get a look at the falls (which are a whole lot higher than this photo would lead you to believe).


Not a bad way to spend part of a late fall day.
 

Monday, October 27, 2014

What is truth?

For some reason, I'm thinking we should post this on the door of the confessional...

  

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Chilly?

I guess Our Lady has been wrapped up like this most of the day out in front of Notre Dame Church:


If she'd only told me she was cold...
 

Attention, Please

   Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time   A  

Laurie had been a good kid,
but things changed when she grew into a teenager—
becoming uncooperative, argumentative, even aggressive—
and things were only getting worse.
All her mother’s lectures and threats
weren’t making any difference whatsoever,
and she didn’t know what else to do.
“Life is hard enough,” this single mom thought,
“holding down two jobs so I can give her whatever she needs
and even a few of the things she wants,
while trying to manage the housework besides.
But she won’t listen to me!
Doesn’t she see how much I love her?
Doesn’t she care at all?”
One day, Laurie’s mother just gave up.
The teen had disobeyed her again,
and was leaving the house to visit friends
without finishing her homework or chores.
Since she didn’t have the strength to scream anymore,
the tired mother simply asked sadly, “Why, Laurie?  Why?”
And in a calm voice, Laurie responded,
“Do you really want to know?”
Her mother nodded.
And Laurie told her, “Because you never listen to me.
You’re too busy with work all the time.
And when you’re home, you’re always telling me what to do.
Whenever I start to tell you my thoughts or my feelings,
you interrupt me with more orders or take off for work again.”
And that’s when the mother realized
that she hadn’t been listening to her daughter.
She’d been so busy trying to provide the best for her
that she failed to give Laurie the things she needed most:
her time and her attention.  (adapted from a true story told by D. Carnegie)

Most of us have a pretty good sense
that love—true love—is much more than just a feeling.
It’s never enough for us to make loving promises;
we must follow them up with loving deeds.
And yet stories like those of Laurie and her mom
make it crystal clear:
neither does love consist solely in doing things—
even extraordinarily generous things—for another person;
love, rather, means being there for them.
Love is often more a matter of our attention
than it is of our actions.
Beyond gift-giving, love calls us to self-giving.

We 21st century Americans are very busy people.
We’re in constant motion,
running from one project or event to the next.
Our whole society is hyperactive!
A parishioner—a retiree, mind you—
recently said to me with a sigh,
“I don’t have a life; I have a schedule!”
Even in our spare time, we act like we do on the job—
as if our worth is measured by our ability to do and produce.

Your spouse and your kids, your parents and friends—
are they only interested in the things
you can do for them or give to them?
Or would they rather have some of your time and attention,
to have you fully present and really listening?
The finest compliment I’ve ever heard paid
by one friend to another is,
“When I’m with him/When I’m with her,
it’s as if I’m the only other person in the entire world!”
(That experience is increasingly rare
with folks forever glancing at the latest text on their cell phones…)
If such genuine availability is prized among our dear ones,
might it not also be appreciated
by our coworkers or classmates or the clerk in the store,
by our fellow parishioners or even a stranger?

You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
You’ll notice that Jesus commands us
to love our “neighbor,” not “humanity”—
to love real, live people, those with whom we cross paths,
and not some nameless, faceless crowd
held off at a safe distance.
It’s one thing to anonymously give money to a soup kitchen;
it’s quite another to sit at table
with someone who’s down on their luck.
The first gets stomachs fed—
don’t get me wrong, a rather important thing to do;
but the second keeps hearts alive—
the hearts of both who are involved.

That second commandment of Christ
is based upon one which is both first and greater:
You shall love the Lord, your God,
with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.
Love of God involves giving our full attention, too, does it not?
Sr. Marie of the Trinity was a Carmelite novice
under the care of St. Thérèse, the “little flower.”
When God was calling her deeper into prayer,
she heard him say, “It’s easier to find laborers to work
than children to play.”
With God as with our neighbor,
we need to spend quality time—to “waste” some time—freely,
purely for the joy of being together.
We are called not only to be the Lord’s servants, but his friends:
to share his life, to be close to him,
over and above any way we might be useful to his purpose.
God doesn’t need us to get busy
as much as he longs for us just to be with him.

Simple and straightforward,
Jesus has spelled out his two great commandments of love.
Let us fulfill these greatest of the Lord’s commands
by giving God and neighbor our very best:
our precious time, our undivided attention, our very selves.

relying heavily on a meditation by Fr. J. Philippe

Friday, October 24, 2014

Messy...but God's still in charge






The recently concluded "Synod on the Family" in Rome caused quite a dust up in both the secular and the Catholic press...making it kind of difficult to get a handle on what was really going on or what one should begin to think about it all.

Bishop Thomas Tobin of Providence, Rhode Island, has posted a few random reelections on the Synod that are both refreshingly succinct and sane.  Check them out here.

Talking Again

I spent last evening at St. Patrick's Church in Colton, where I was invited to give a talk on Vatican II's Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy as part of their adult faith formation series for the fall.  This was essentially the same talk I gave at a diocesan workshop marking the 50th anniversary of the Second Vatican Council and the end of the Year of Faith (see here and/or here).  You know it's quite a  compliment to a cook to ask for a second helping of what's being served; likewise, it's quite a compliment to a speaker to ask him to give the very same presentation all over again!  Deep thanks to my hosts for the kind invitation (along with a really wonderful meal beforehand), and to the fine group of folks from the parishes in Potsdam and Colton who came out on a "dark and stormy night" to listen, discuss, and ask questions.


A Time to Dance

Even though it doesn't look or feel anything like Indian Summer out there this morning, Snoopy's optimistic outlook had my toes tapping just a bit this morning...



And then I heard about this fancy footwork coming out from my alma mater:



Help these two priests go truly viral and watch the original YouTube video here.  Then be sure to dance your way on through the day.